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Surrender

Booking Information

I welcome people of all genders, races, sexual identities and disabilities to seek my services.

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Making A Booking

Please provide the following information when enquiring~

- Your preferred name and pronouns

- Interests and experience level
- Appointment length

- Preferred appointment date/time

Methods of contact~ All enquiries should be sent via email or text. Please do not send booking enquiries via social media. Most social media platforms are not Sex Worker friendly, and your enquiry is most likely to be lost in a sea of notifications.

Clear concise, and respectful correspondence will put you at the top of my list to respond to.
To avoid miscommunications, please do not use abbreviations or slang when referring to services.
Be as detailed as possible when describing your ideal session, this allows me to create a more fulfilling experience for both of us. 


Haggling or disrespectful requests for discounts will be countered with an increased fee or a refusal of service.
Professional BDSM Practitioners are highly skilled and commit to extensive and ongoing training. Please be mindful of this when reviewing fees. This is a luxury service and should be treated as such.

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All agreed upon limits and boundaries must be respected. Crossing of these boundaries will be met with a warning and/or a swift end to your session. Consent is key. If you behave in a manner that endangers either of us you will immediately be barred from seeing me.

EXPECTATIONS & BOUNDARIES

It is important to have realistic expectations when seeking services from a BDSM practitioner.
I can only meet you as deeply as you've met yourself. Whilst I am incredibly intuitive, I am not a mind reader and should not be treated as such. This is a collaborative experience and a partnership in connection; one that will deepen and grow with ongoing time and care. Uncommunicated desires are often the main cause of disappointment. If you're unsure of where to start, we can explore that together through discussion and play.

To avoid disappointment, please review some common unrealistic expectations:
 

  • Immediate Availability ~ I work via an appointment only model. Prior notice and a deposit is needed to secure your booking. This gives me time to prepare for the session and create the most enjoyable outcome for all.
     

  • Wardrobe Requests ~ Short notice requests for outfits, items and grandiose pieces is not appropriate. Mistress' wardrobe is a sight to behold, however I do not have a neverending supply of items on hand at all times.
    Special requests for Fetish sessions require pre-arrangement & discussion. Asking me to paint my nails a different colour 5 minutes before our session (oh it's been asked), is not acceptable. If your heart desires to see me in a special item up close and personal, you are welcome to discuss it with me, bring it into session (with my approval) or purchase it and send it to my
    PO Box (Coming soon).
     

  • Maximum Effort/Experience for Minimum Time/Pay ~ Seeing a Mistress sometimes feels like being a kid in a candy store. We want ALLLLL the options! Unfortunately, trying to cram a large list of activities or micromanaging the experience can lead to a disconnected session that feels rushed. In some instances a client may feel like they are getting their moneys worth this way, but it's quite the opposite. It takes time and effort to hone a Mistress' skills, and it takes time to fully immerse yourself in each activity. I ask that you respect the time and energy I have put into my craft, and that you act accordingly.
     

  • Constant Communication ~  I adore love notes, musings and expressions of gratitude. However, a lengthy excess in communication is not feasible or sustainable. My time is precious and I will respond in kind, but not to excess. If you desire my undivided attention I recommend taking advantage of my MSG Mistress service.
     

  • Civilian Encounters ~ If you spot Mistress out in the wild and feel the need to approach, think again.
    My personal time is just that...mine. An unsocilited approach in the vanilla world is inappropriate. The only time that this may be acceptable, is of course a pre-arranged meeting or at a Kink event.

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Health & Safety

pre-Appointment Protocols

Please ensure that you are in good health, have eaten and are well hydrated before your appointment.
If you have any health conditions or injuries please disclose them via your booking form to ensure that we avoid any health hazards. Prior to your appointment we will discuss the scene, boundaries, limits and any queries you may have.

Debrief
Debriefing and discussing how the scene went is a great way to work through emotions and to improve on future scenes. I always welcome your feedback. Debrief time is included in your session however if you would like extended  time, please let me know beforehand and I can structure our session accordingly.

Accessability

I do my best to make my services as accessible and comfortable as possible.
If you have any concerns, queries or special accomodations that need to be met please discuss with me prior to booking, to ensure a happy and healthy outcome for all.

 

Covid Safety plan
The premises and instruments are rigorously sanitised to ensure a safe and clean environment.

If you are feeling unwell or have any covid-related symptoms, please stay at home!

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Limits

  • Substance use / Intoxication

  • Adult babies

  • Filth & toilet play: Gold, Brown, Roman or Ruby showers

  • I do not offer submissive or switch sessions

  • Poor hygiene

  • Tardiness, time wasters

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Booking / Cancellation policy

A 50% Deposit is required to secure your booking.
If for any reason you need to cancel, 48 hours notice is needed or your deposit will be forfeited.

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